Jav and I have been together for quite awhile now. over 5 years is you do not count the split we had for a few months in 2006. we got back together right at the end of 2006 and in may of 2007 we found out I was pregnant. We were both scared to death (Jav more so than myself) and were not really ready to take this on. Well, I ended up having a miscarriage. The doctor said that it was a chemical pregnancy, in other words, I found out way to early, and it ended really before it began. I think it worked out for the best.
Fast forward to 2008. Jav and I are still happily together, infact for the first time ever he asked me to move in. So we are living together (including his brother Bobby) and We are getting closer. 2008 is a big year in a sad way because this is the year that we lost my Grandma Sam. Well for awhile Jav had been saying here and there how it would be cool to have a baby and that I would be a good mom and how he thought that we would make a good parenting team. So one day I asked him straight if he wanted to have a baby. He said yes. So this was basically the planning of Cain to come :)
In October, I had a missed period, which was nothing new for me, being as irregular as I am, but this time I had symptoms from the first time I was pregnant. The extreme tiredness. So I went and bought a home pregnancy test and took it, and got a negative. "oh well" I thought, "we'll keep trying". well a few days later the tiredness seemed to be getting worse so I decided to take another test since the box comes with three. On October 18th 2008 I found out I was pregnant. Jav had already gone to work, So I called Nicole because I could not contain my excitement. We talked for a long while and she told me to go to the birth center, that they would give me a free pregnancy test and the paper work I needed to get approved for AHCCCS. When Jav came home for lunch, I showed him the test. We were so excited!! I culd not wait to get this all going. That Monday, I went down to the birth center and they gave me a test. They estimated my due date at May 25th 2009 and gave me the paper work needed. I got an appointment set up with them and had to play the waiting game all the way to November!
Fast forward to 2008. Jav and I are still happily together, infact for the first time ever he asked me to move in. So we are living together (including his brother Bobby) and We are getting closer. 2008 is a big year in a sad way because this is the year that we lost my Grandma Sam. Well for awhile Jav had been saying here and there how it would be cool to have a baby and that I would be a good mom and how he thought that we would make a good parenting team. So one day I asked him straight if he wanted to have a baby. He said yes. So this was basically the planning of Cain to come :)
In October, I had a missed period, which was nothing new for me, being as irregular as I am, but this time I had symptoms from the first time I was pregnant. The extreme tiredness. So I went and bought a home pregnancy test and took it, and got a negative. "oh well" I thought, "we'll keep trying". well a few days later the tiredness seemed to be getting worse so I decided to take another test since the box comes with three. On October 18th 2008 I found out I was pregnant. Jav had already gone to work, So I called Nicole because I could not contain my excitement. We talked for a long while and she told me to go to the birth center, that they would give me a free pregnancy test and the paper work I needed to get approved for AHCCCS. When Jav came home for lunch, I showed him the test. We were so excited!! I culd not wait to get this all going. That Monday, I went down to the birth center and they gave me a test. They estimated my due date at May 25th 2009 and gave me the paper work needed. I got an appointment set up with them and had to play the waiting game all the way to November!
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